Who You Loving Valentine's Day and Beyond?

So many put a ton of effort into getting the right gift, the right card, going to the right dinner and setting the right mood, but don't know if it's with the right person!

Valentine's Day is a day built on love. For those who know they have found THE ONE and are nestled in the right relationship, there should be a monthly Valentine's Day. Those who are still speculating on him or her, need to understand that no amount of 'right' or perfect gift on one day will make a future with someone correct.

I spoke with a guy who just proposed to his long-time mate. He did everything a woman would want for her engagement; a two carat ring, special pomp and circumstance within a posh restaurant filled with lots of strangers surrounding them, so they could ogle at her gorgeous ring.  Even with all that, he stated he's not sure if he did the right thing with the right woman. WHAT? He succumbed to the pressure of her and her mother, only to now have ex's and 'friends' telling him he shouldn't have; he's second guessing his decision to propose. So, now he is in a precarious situation;  continue the farce or be honest and admit to her that he's not ready to marry and he's unsure about his future with her. 

Why even put yourself in that situation?  We can love a multitude of people for various reasons.  The one you request to spend the rest of your life with, however, you should love beyond measure.  It's not the value in a day {In this instance Valentine's Day} or the influences of persons around you, that makes for the proper timing when it comes to choosing your life mate. 

Treat every day as your opportunity to find out if the person you are with is truly THE ONE.  Peer and parental pressures aside, stand strong in your beliefs and your cautiousness.  After all, you are taking your time for some reason.  If you have done the homework and decide the person is right for you, but your friends don't see it the same way, then maybe it's your friendship that needs reevaluating!

Find the one who is the right fit.  No one else should have to tell you or push you to that realization.

B*A*B*Y!

Hello Beautiful Souls!

Have you missed my posts?  I apologize for taking so much time away.

I will take off the remainder of 2011 because I'M PREGNANT!  Yeah me and us!

If you know me, you know I have waited for the perfect mate in order to have a child.  Well, all situations are just as I planned and now, we are expecting.

Thanks, in advance, for your support and love!

Joyce...

Temporary Tags

Ever feel that you or things in your life come and go with no clear delineation? Ever feel that you and your situation(s) are temporary?

Be the person to determine your status. Realize that temporary shall should not be the way. No one should wear a temporary label or feel compelled to live in a temporary status because of another person, job, life situation or crazy circumstance.

If ever you feel a lag and think that things within your life are at a standstill, look around you and determine whether or not you are in a temporary circumstance. It is hard to find at times, so I will help a little...

* Feel that your relationship is at a standstill and not moving in a clear direction.
* Feel that your stagnant in your current work position.
* Feel more questions about some people in your life.
* Feel confused more than clear on a lot of issues.
* Feel as if you are filling a void without substance.

Apply for your hard tags! Get out of the mindset of thinking temporary or being put into a temporary situation or relationship!

Raise the roof on your dreams, hopes and aspirations! Do not let fear of permanency force you to live a temporary existence. You deserve better!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

It's a brand new year that is pregnant with possibility. What great idea will you give birth to?

No matter what your dreams and aspirations, remember that with the start of a new year, it's another opportunity for new beginnings!

Make your list of aspirations, wants and desires. Write down all your hopes and dreams. No matter how far fetched, be sure to list it. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you and help you towards your goals. If you tell someone what you aspire to, and they are not happy for you or find more fault and reason for you not to do what you desire, then those people truly don't want what you want from life. Separate yourself from them or you will never achieve you dreams!

What the universe has for you, is for you! No one can take it away. It's up to you to put forth the effort and do great things. Don't let any negative vampires drain you and blind you from seeing your way to your dreams.

It's a new year! Welcome 2011 and all the great opportunities!

On to the Next One!!!

In a few days, we shall usher in 2011! Yes to new beginnings!

I don't believe in resolutions. Too often we make poor resolutions and never stick to them.

Instead of resolutions, let's try making reassurances to ourselves and to our loved ones. Reassure yourself that IF you're not in the proper place in your life or frame of mind, that you will work on those improvements. Reassure those who you love and tell them that you do love them.

Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. We all have stories of people passing who were of varying ages. No matter when our name is called, it is never the right time for those we love or the right time for us, as we did not accomplish this or that. If those we love know that we love them and cherish their existence in our lives, then they will be comforted when we leave the earth. If we follow our hearts more, we shall live without regret!

Reassure yourself and go forth to conquer all your dreams and aspirations. GO FOR IT! Do what you have always dreamed of doing! Complete that bucket list! Tell those closest to you that you love them and what they mean to you and your life. Never live in a world of regrets!

So, it's on to 2011! It's a new year and new opportunity for you to do so very much. On to the next one!

Leave the negative in the past! Leave the energy vampires there as well. Step into a new year with positivity and great desire! You will get what you want!