Come on. It's time to leave the past in the past. No one should ever want to live in remnants of past hurt and pain.
Okay, so he or she did something that will last in your heart forever. Did that person affect everything in your life that much? Can you link that experience(s) to some misfortune you're enduring today? Probably not!
Most people use bad past experiences as the reason why most of their present situations are not going well. Instead of seeking the lesson(s) we can from past interactions, we hold onto the bad vibes as the Bible to our future life and living.
GET OVER IT. No one and nothing should have that much power and control over you.
With every experience, we should seek to find the lesson or blessing. Instead of burying yourself in a world of "woe is me," find the key item that person or persons deposited into your life. Take the "bad" experience and cast it into the wind, after you've purged it from your being.
Seek to use that portion of the event to propel yourself to great heights. Learn how to balance the good and bad in a way that doesn’t destroy you.
In its place unearth the greatness within yourself and understand that you are not responsible for the actions or mistreatment of others. That person was simply not the right fit for you.
Go forward with the understanding that you are made to endure bad and good things. You are not, however, made to keep and carry all those negative items with you forever.
So, come on and get over it. Cleanse yourself of all the things you’ve been carrying for so long. Give the negative energy back to that person. Pick up some positive and use it to refine yourself and your soul!
Yes Yes, I love this. So many can benefit from this, heal, and "Get Over It". Continue on my sister, feeding our souls.
ReplyDeleteJoyce i be trying to leave him because i know the feeling between us is gone we will get along for a week and next week we will be beefing over something petty as him being mad because my son's father bought me a chicken box he just so insecure about everything but i been through so much i don't even care no more my feeling is not the same and i know as soon as i get over this loneliness feeling i will completely let him go i just be praying asking God to take the desire away but i know i came a long way because i use to let him upset me but i don't even get mad no more because the more we beef the further my feeling for him die away and i know it's a matter of time i will walk away and don't turn back.
ReplyDeleteHey Lady...you are doing your thang! Most of the time people don't realize that GOD is making room for somthing much better.
ReplyDeleteDo the dang thing Joyce. Girl you are truly gifted.
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