Part of a One-on-One Relationship!

Ever feel like there is a part of your mate that is not with you at all times? When that happens, there is a reason for it.

Having part of person's presence and participation in your relationship is not the same as having them all to yourself. If you two agree to have an exclusive relationship, then agree fully to that exclusivity.

If you are the person not feeling the relationship and commitment, then speak to your mate about your feelings. Don't drag the relationship out hoping that things will get better or fade to black. If you are not into that person any longer, then it's best to let them go early instead of dragging the relationship on and eventually all parties involved get hurt.

Time has a way of showing us those things we need to see. More often, we ignore what we see in hopes the person's behavior or action is temporary. All that is done in the dark comes to light. If you can see and feel something wrong, then it's in the light and, therefore, you should pay attention to it.

Part of a one-on-one relationship is the same as being single. You and your mate cannot grow within your relationship if you are both wandering--mentally, physically or emotionally--away from the relationship. You cannot claim to be happy and satisfied within your relationship if you only receive part of someone.

Silence is not always golden. Do not leave your mate wondering how you feel. Do not accept the little bits and pieces you receive from your mate. Don't make excuses for them. In the end, it won't benefit either of you!

Don't settle. Realize that there is someone out there that will be a good fit for you. No one is perfect, however, the behavior within the relationship and towards the person should be....or pretty close to it!

Demand a one-on-one relationship because you deserve that and more.