Temporary Tags

Ever feel that you or things in your life come and go with no clear delineation? Ever feel that you and your situation(s) are temporary?

Be the person to determine your status. Realize that temporary shall should not be the way. No one should wear a temporary label or feel compelled to live in a temporary status because of another person, job, life situation or crazy circumstance.

If ever you feel a lag and think that things within your life are at a standstill, look around you and determine whether or not you are in a temporary circumstance. It is hard to find at times, so I will help a little...

* Feel that your relationship is at a standstill and not moving in a clear direction.
* Feel that your stagnant in your current work position.
* Feel more questions about some people in your life.
* Feel confused more than clear on a lot of issues.
* Feel as if you are filling a void without substance.

Apply for your hard tags! Get out of the mindset of thinking temporary or being put into a temporary situation or relationship!

Raise the roof on your dreams, hopes and aspirations! Do not let fear of permanency force you to live a temporary existence. You deserve better!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

It's a brand new year that is pregnant with possibility. What great idea will you give birth to?

No matter what your dreams and aspirations, remember that with the start of a new year, it's another opportunity for new beginnings!

Make your list of aspirations, wants and desires. Write down all your hopes and dreams. No matter how far fetched, be sure to list it. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you and help you towards your goals. If you tell someone what you aspire to, and they are not happy for you or find more fault and reason for you not to do what you desire, then those people truly don't want what you want from life. Separate yourself from them or you will never achieve you dreams!

What the universe has for you, is for you! No one can take it away. It's up to you to put forth the effort and do great things. Don't let any negative vampires drain you and blind you from seeing your way to your dreams.

It's a new year! Welcome 2011 and all the great opportunities!

On to the Next One!!!

In a few days, we shall usher in 2011! Yes to new beginnings!

I don't believe in resolutions. Too often we make poor resolutions and never stick to them.

Instead of resolutions, let's try making reassurances to ourselves and to our loved ones. Reassure yourself that IF you're not in the proper place in your life or frame of mind, that you will work on those improvements. Reassure those who you love and tell them that you do love them.

Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. We all have stories of people passing who were of varying ages. No matter when our name is called, it is never the right time for those we love or the right time for us, as we did not accomplish this or that. If those we love know that we love them and cherish their existence in our lives, then they will be comforted when we leave the earth. If we follow our hearts more, we shall live without regret!

Reassure yourself and go forth to conquer all your dreams and aspirations. GO FOR IT! Do what you have always dreamed of doing! Complete that bucket list! Tell those closest to you that you love them and what they mean to you and your life. Never live in a world of regrets!

So, it's on to 2011! It's a new year and new opportunity for you to do so very much. On to the next one!

Leave the negative in the past! Leave the energy vampires there as well. Step into a new year with positivity and great desire! You will get what you want!

Your TIONS in order?

I heard some people recently tell me that they don't have this and that or don't require this or that in a mate, however, there are four simple TIONS that every person should come into a relationship with. For that matter, we should have our own personal TIONS lined up as a matter of self growth.

Your TIONS are: educaTION, occupaTION, transportaTION and habitaTION! It is just that simple!

Get yourself an education. No one can take your education from you! An education will also help you to promote yourself in your current position. Employers reward employees for obtaining a higher education.

Get yourself an occupation. Find something you love and go do it OR do the best in the position you have! Jobs are good, but careers are always better.

Get yourself some transportation. Everyone needs to be able to get where they are going on their own. No one wants to be a burden to their friends or in their relationship. Obtain a license, and get yourself some reliable transportation.

Get yourself your own place to lay your head. A small place of your own is always better than relying on others to provide a roof over your head. It does not have to be the Taj Mahal, but it will be yours.

Bringing these simple items into any mix will give a fresh start every situation.

So, do you have your TIONS in order? Does your mate?

Do not put a person out of your life for their lack of a TION here and there, but instead lift them up with encouragement and push them towards obtaining their own. In the end, you both will flourish and simple complaints, hassles and disagreements will not come into the mix.

Thanks for Giving

In this season of Thanksgiving we speak of thanks for those things which are material, but often do not recognize the smaller things for which we should be thankful.

Far too often you do so much for so many and never hear THANK YOU! You give and give and give far beyond your mental, physical and emotional means, and receive very little thanks in return. You are a special person and you deserve to at least be acknowledged for what you do for others. So, if no one has told you THANK YOU recently, then all me.....THANK YOU!!!

THANK YOU for being so open to giving from your heart.

THANK YOU for being the type of person that stands by your beliefs.

THANK YOU for allowing others to rest their weary selves on your shoulders, and you stand strong until they were ready to move.

THANK YOU for having such a big, open heart that more people flocked to you because they saw straight to your goodness.

THANK YOU for not allowing yourself to blame yourself for the shortcomings of others.

THANK YOU for not holding onto the hurt and pain.

THANK YOU FOR GIVING MORE OF YOURSELF THAN YOU EVER GOT IN RETURN!

I could go on, but you get the drift. STOP and take a minute to thank yourself for being the kind, generous and giving person that you are! You are exceptional. If no one else recognizes that fact, then I will for them and the others that didn't take a second to THANK YOU for being the wonderful person you are.

Don't lull in the selfishness of others, but swim in the knowledge that your reward shall come by way of others sooner than later.

Thanks for giving of your time, energy, heart, soul, effort and love. You shall have all your rewards soon enough!