On to the Next One!!!

In a few days, we shall usher in 2011! Yes to new beginnings!

I don't believe in resolutions. Too often we make poor resolutions and never stick to them.

Instead of resolutions, let's try making reassurances to ourselves and to our loved ones. Reassure yourself that IF you're not in the proper place in your life or frame of mind, that you will work on those improvements. Reassure those who you love and tell them that you do love them.

Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. We all have stories of people passing who were of varying ages. No matter when our name is called, it is never the right time for those we love or the right time for us, as we did not accomplish this or that. If those we love know that we love them and cherish their existence in our lives, then they will be comforted when we leave the earth. If we follow our hearts more, we shall live without regret!

Reassure yourself and go forth to conquer all your dreams and aspirations. GO FOR IT! Do what you have always dreamed of doing! Complete that bucket list! Tell those closest to you that you love them and what they mean to you and your life. Never live in a world of regrets!

So, it's on to 2011! It's a new year and new opportunity for you to do so very much. On to the next one!

Leave the negative in the past! Leave the energy vampires there as well. Step into a new year with positivity and great desire! You will get what you want!

Your TIONS in order?

I heard some people recently tell me that they don't have this and that or don't require this or that in a mate, however, there are four simple TIONS that every person should come into a relationship with. For that matter, we should have our own personal TIONS lined up as a matter of self growth.

Your TIONS are: educaTION, occupaTION, transportaTION and habitaTION! It is just that simple!

Get yourself an education. No one can take your education from you! An education will also help you to promote yourself in your current position. Employers reward employees for obtaining a higher education.

Get yourself an occupation. Find something you love and go do it OR do the best in the position you have! Jobs are good, but careers are always better.

Get yourself some transportation. Everyone needs to be able to get where they are going on their own. No one wants to be a burden to their friends or in their relationship. Obtain a license, and get yourself some reliable transportation.

Get yourself your own place to lay your head. A small place of your own is always better than relying on others to provide a roof over your head. It does not have to be the Taj Mahal, but it will be yours.

Bringing these simple items into any mix will give a fresh start every situation.

So, do you have your TIONS in order? Does your mate?

Do not put a person out of your life for their lack of a TION here and there, but instead lift them up with encouragement and push them towards obtaining their own. In the end, you both will flourish and simple complaints, hassles and disagreements will not come into the mix.